Poised for Confidence (and a Chance To Win a $250 Visa Gift Card)
I consider it my job to be a fun squasher. I like to have conversations with my kid that preempt jokes, demystify life's oddities, and suck all the joy out of slang terminology. It started early with our first talk about where babies come from and will continue on and on. She knows the proper words for most everything; she understands the basic mechanics, and as time goes on, I'll fill her in on the details. It's all so that when puberty slaps her across the face, she'll be prepared.
It won't be a big deal because we will have already covered every angle.
The conversations won't stop there, though. It's not like our bodies magically stop changing once we get past that puberty thing. There is the fun of road maps of stretch marks from having a baby, the gray hair that comes in to remind us life is stressful (or maybe it's that genetics stink), breasts have a way of inching their way south, wrinkles make bumps in the road maps of our faces, and then there's that whole thing that comes along and makes puberty seem like a party.
Menopause.
I've (HOPEFULLY!) got a little bit of time before I'll have to deal with the symptoms of menopause, but frankly I'm a bit freaked out by them. Why is it that we talk openly about puberty but not menopause? WHY? I'm extremely fortunate that several of my friends are older than me, so I'll get a bit of a heads-up on what to expect.
I hope to give Alexis that heads-up as well. It may not happen for a while, but you can bet it will happen.
Poise brand is encouraging women to have The "Second Talk" in time for World Menopause Day on October 18th. I plan on tuning into the conversation so I can learn more about menopause and the solutions to some of the symptoms, thereby preparing myself for what's coming. The2ndTalk.com has information about things like hot flashes, dryness, and vaginal odor. They are all topics nobody seems to talk about, but we should.
And when it's time for me to combat what comes with menopause? Poise is introducing products designed to help women feel more comfortable, more in control, and more prepared to deal with the physical changes menopause and peri-menopause can bring. Be sure to look for details about the Body Cooling Towelettes; they look so refreshing.
It is easier to be confident as our bodies change when we know what to expect.
When do you feel most confident? Leave your answer in the comments to be entered for a chance to win a $250 Visa Gift Card. Me? I feel the most confident when I'm watching my kid be confident.
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Reader Comments (377)
I feel the most confident in a new outfit.
tweeted: https://twitter.com/KerryBishop/status/233736302992977920
I feel most confident when I'm wearing a really cute outfit!
I feel confident when I am doing things I know I rock at doing - and when I get compliments later its a major confidence boost!
tweeted https://twitter.com/patis2000/status/233956946309439488
i;m confident pretty much always.
I'm most confident when everything comes together perfectly. Hair, makeup, shoes, and clothes and there is no drama in my life.
I'm most confident when I pull off an amazing program at work.
I feel the most confident when I follow a diet and exercise routine.
https://twitter.com/smilekisses/status/234535339908276225
I feel most confident while I'm baking! My baking almost never fails.
I feel most confident after a run.
I feel most confident when I finish a long distance race, putting forth the best effort I could on that given day.
When I'm with people who love me. :)
I feel most confident when I can make someone smile.
I feel most confident when I host a party. I know I make some good food and drinks, and my house is comfortable and ready for guests. I love having a nice get-together and knowing I made it possible for my friends to enjoy each other's company.
I feel most confident in a fabulous pair of jeans!
I feel most confident when I accomplish something that was not easy for me and I had to make sacrifices to get it done. Also, when I see my daughter accomplish something that she has been struggling with and getting frustrated with but finds a way to work through it.
When I give a really successful presentation
I feel confident when I am doing what I love
When I'm all dressed up and feeling sexy
I am most confident when a project I attempt comes out well - and when my clothes are fitting comfortably.
https://twitter.com/PeytonThePoodle/status/235477014985965568
I feel most confident when I'm wearing scarf.
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I feel most confident in a new outfit!
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i feel most confident when i am on the computer and blogging or tweeting.
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I feel most confident after getting my waxing done and a pedicure!
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I am most confident when I am in my element... aka something artistic and in front of artistic people : ) Also I usually can hold my own when in a new place
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I feel most confident after a really tough work out!
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I fell most confident when my husband tells me I look better than I did when We met, especially after having 3 kids.
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I feel most confident when I've written something I'm proud of.
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https://twitter.com/Jayne_Martin/status/236259666773024772
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I feel most confident when wearing my most comfy jeans with a pair of Doc Martens. The jeans are so long that I step all over the cuffs, but they're just ME, and I love them.
I'm most confident when I am comfortable and wearing something that makes me feel beautiful!
-Ashley Marie Morrissey
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I feel confident when I'm doing things that I love, such as most parts of my job and cooking for family and friends.
tweeted here. https://twitter.com/sgumer/status/236597255266770944
I feel most confident when I'm dressed up with some makeup and have a perfect hair day!
I feel most confident when I'm wearing clothes I love
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https://twitter.com/KatieR6678/status/236646984650457088
I feel the most confident when I see my adult children being loving, productive and assets to their communities. I feel I did my job well.
I feel most confident when the bills are paid and my house is clean... weird probably! :)
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https://twitter.com/ArtsyChaos/status/236942797649887232
I feel most confident after a good workout. No better mood booster than experiencing the awesome things your body can do!