Poised for Confidence (and a Chance To Win a $250 Visa Gift Card)
I consider it my job to be a fun squasher. I like to have conversations with my kid that preempt jokes, demystify life's oddities, and suck all the joy out of slang terminology. It started early with our first talk about where babies come from and will continue on and on. She knows the proper words for most everything; she understands the basic mechanics, and as time goes on, I'll fill her in on the details. It's all so that when puberty slaps her across the face, she'll be prepared.
It won't be a big deal because we will have already covered every angle.
The conversations won't stop there, though. It's not like our bodies magically stop changing once we get past that puberty thing. There is the fun of road maps of stretch marks from having a baby, the gray hair that comes in to remind us life is stressful (or maybe it's that genetics stink), breasts have a way of inching their way south, wrinkles make bumps in the road maps of our faces, and then there's that whole thing that comes along and makes puberty seem like a party.
Menopause.
I've (HOPEFULLY!) got a little bit of time before I'll have to deal with the symptoms of menopause, but frankly I'm a bit freaked out by them. Why is it that we talk openly about puberty but not menopause? WHY? I'm extremely fortunate that several of my friends are older than me, so I'll get a bit of a heads-up on what to expect.
I hope to give Alexis that heads-up as well. It may not happen for a while, but you can bet it will happen.
Poise brand is encouraging women to have The "Second Talk" in time for World Menopause Day on October 18th. I plan on tuning into the conversation so I can learn more about menopause and the solutions to some of the symptoms, thereby preparing myself for what's coming. The2ndTalk.com has information about things like hot flashes, dryness, and vaginal odor. They are all topics nobody seems to talk about, but we should.
And when it's time for me to combat what comes with menopause? Poise is introducing products designed to help women feel more comfortable, more in control, and more prepared to deal with the physical changes menopause and peri-menopause can bring. Be sure to look for details about the Body Cooling Towelettes; they look so refreshing.
It is easier to be confident as our bodies change when we know what to expect.
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Reader Comments (377)
tweeted https://twitter.com/mermont84/status/238814464655368192
I feel most confident when I can make someone laugh!
I feel most confident when I'm dressed comfortably and my face isn't broken out.
I feel most confidant when I am doing something I know and love
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I feel most confident when I do not worry about what other people are thinking.
I am most confident when I look good, feel comfortable, and go about my day feeling positive.
I am most confident when I'm working with animals.
I feel most confident when I'm with my friends.
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I feel most confident when I know my family is safe with me.
I feel most confident when I am around my family who really, truly accepts me and loves me unconditionally
I feel most confident when I'm talking about something I'm knowledgeable about.
I feel the most confident when I get a smile across the room from my husband.
I am most confident when I am in my fiance's arms <3
I feel most confident when I'm in the swimming pool teaching my Arthritis Class. Or singing in the pool.
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I am most confident when I accomplish a goal
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I feel most confident when I am working in an area I am sure of, such as writing.
most confident when i make adifferance in someone life.
I am confident in everything I do.
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I feel most confident after I've acheived a goal that I thought I never would.
I feel most confident when I'm with a group of people who aren't judging or self centered.
It helps me to know that I "have it all together" without others trying to get the upper hand.
I also feel confident when I am familiar and comfortable with my surroundings.
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I feel most confident when I try something new & I am actually good at it.
I feel most confident when I'm when I'm helping out at my girls' school. I just feel like I belong there for some reason. Thank you!
I feel most confident when I am being authentic and not worrying about stepping on toes or having to guard my words or actions for fear of annoying others.
Tweeted https://twitter.com/dddiva/status/238984315420168192
When I eat well and exercise I feel better and look better and feel more confident!
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https://twitter.com/dresdenrain/status/238990453066833921
When I am walking with my husband I feel the most confident. I do not know why but I always stand up taller and feel so full of pride.
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I feel the most confident when I'm dressed nicely, but still casually, and my hair looks good.
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When I have gotten good sleep, a shower, clean clothes, and a good meal. With kids it is hard to get all of those in some days though!
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i feel most confident when i see my son making good choices. i know i am doing something right! ;) sleeping.swans@gmail.com
I feel most confident after having a sucessful day at work.
I feel the most confident when I dress up to go shopping instead of the usual jeans and tee shirt.
feel most confident when I look good
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I feel most confident when my husband tells me I look beautiful. It raises my confidence level.
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I feel most confident when I am in clothes that I feel compliment me
I feel most confident when listening to a favorite song. The beats and energy of the song flows thru me and I just don't care what anyone thinks as I move to the music. I am in my own world and can do no wrong!
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I feel most confident in the kitchen (no surprise there) and when I am put together; clothes, make up
I feel most confident when I am wearing clothes that fit me perfectly and when I'm having a great hair and makeup day. When I think I look great, I feel like I can do anything.