Quite Definitely Pointless

Caution: Pointless rant ahead. Look away if that sort of thing annoys you. Just clicky clicky the little X in the corner.

Soooooo ... there is this mom. I've known of her for years and years. My first encounter was actually a SUPER weird one because she used her superior internet sleuthing skills (totally serious there, she's a pro at internetting her way into knowing things) to crash a Burgh Mom event. For those who have forgotten all about that era, early in the parenting blogger days, brands were constantly looking for ways to interact with parenting bloggers. I was sort of the center of one of those wheels, at least in Pittsburgh, and sometimes I organized groups of bloggers to go do things. In this particular instance, we went to IKEA for a party. There was free food and drinks and generally it was a great event that allowed us to learn a lot about IKEA.

But that one mom. She was there because she faked being a mom blogger. Like, she said she was so she could go, but she wasn't actually a blogger and it turned out all sorts of awkward. It got even more awkward when it turned out that her next-door neighbor was a good friend of mine and ... woof. It's probably for the best that the details of that whole thing have never been put into written words.

ANYWAY. Fast forward a year or so and that one mom started showing up in my life at the most random of times. The most memorable of those random times was at kid sporting events. As in, I would go to a little kid football game to watch Alexis cheer, and there that woman would be there. ALWAYS. It was impossible not to notice her because she is THAT person who stands at a little kid football game right next to the sign at the front of the bleachers. You know the sign - the one that says "No standing here." Always. She absolutely always stands right there, fully engaged in a conversation with another mom of her type.

I can say with certainty that it's ALWAYS because at one point I stopped deleting my 80000 photos that had her backside in them. I have photo after photo that's supposed to be of Alexis but that is actually of that woman's ass because not only does she stand next to that sign, she moves while she's doing it. No matter how hard I try to see (and take photos of) my kid, THERE SHE IS.

Wanna hear how it gets even more odd? She doesn't have a kid Alexis' age. Her oldest is younger than Alexis and in activities the age group below her. So, like, she was at her kid's event and then stayed for the next one for whatever reason. And blocked everyone's view. When her kid wasn't on the field.

This is a thing that is incomprehensible to me as I am not comfortable at kid sporting events. I am there solely to watch my kid and then to run away as fast as possible. The notion of staying an hour or two longer completely blows my mind. I'm sure there are people who understand completely and also do it. I am simply not one of them.

Sooooo ... this has been going on for years. YEARS. It has to be at least 10 years that this particular woman has managed to block my view of my kid at the most amazing of times. Then came the pandemic and I completely lost sight of her, in no small part because after seeing countless photos of her and her family NOT quarantining and hosting parties and generally trying their best to kill a whole bunch of people by doing the opposite of social distancing, I blocked her EVERYWHERE. Every social media everything.

For the record, that includes my neighborhood Facebook page. Is she one of my neighbors? NOPE! She lives miles away in a totally different development. She's a member of at least three private neighborhood groups, though. Like I said, super good at internet sleuthing. She'll even join a Facebook group that isn't applicable to her life in any way, shape, or form for the sake of knowing what's going on in the world.

So things went quiet from where I was sitting during the pandemic. She vanished, I stopped being stupidly annoyed by her, and so on. And I do mean STUPIDLY. I have known for YEARS that she is who she is and there is absolutely no reason for me to pay any attention to her, but yet I sit there and get legit angry that she's so ... her. I think the right word for it is "inconsiderate" but I'm not really sure because I think it's more that she's oblivious. I seriously doubt she realizes that countless other parents can't see their own kids because THERE SHE IS. ALWAYS. Except during a pandemic.

And then came this weekend's cheer competition. I was slapped in the face with an instant reminder that she exists.

There were pretty strict rules about observers at the competition. Each cheerleader was allowed two spectators. Chairs were placed in pairs with social distancing between the sets of chairs. The multi-page COVID guidelines even mentioned that we were to only watch our own athletes perform.

GUESS WHAT MY FAVORITE PERSON DID!

She totally took a front seat at Alexis' performance, a performance at which she did not have a child. She was 100% in the room only because she wanted to be nebby. And! And! SHE PUSHED MILA OUT OF HER WAY TO TAKE THAT FRONT ROW CHAIR.

Seriously.

I'm assuming she didn't see the tiny comet who went darting for the seat because she was super excited to watch her big sister, but the lady totally body-checked Mila and took those seats. And that is why we ended up in the second row and couldn't see half of the cheer performance and whatever.

I need to get a life and quit being annoyed by that woman.

And I need to go back to not peopling. It was better for my sanity.

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