Finding Happy With eHarmony (And a Chance to Win a $100 Visa Gift Card!) (CLOSED)
I think everyone has that friend. That friend who is amazing and fantastic and wonderful, and you just can't figure out why they haven't found The One. In fact, that friend is so amazing and fantastic and wonderful you can't even think of someone to hook them up with because he or she is too good for anybody you know.
Good news, kids. It all works out in the end. In the past year, I've watched not one but two of my most amazing single friends find The One. Just thinking about how happy they are now makes me break out in a smile as big as the sun.
One of those friends, Jennifer, immediately came to mind when I received an email from BlogHer asking if I knew anyone who had found love using eHarmony. Jennifer should work for eHarmony's marketing department because HOOBOY does she sing their praises! Jennifer is an incredibly gorgeous, sweet, outgoing, energetic, and hysterical 30-something who is now engaged to Brian.
I sent Jennifer some questions, and here's what she had to say:
How did you meet?
Well, we first "met" on eHarmony. After a few months of emailing and IMing back and forth, we finally decided to meet for real at Primanti Brothers. Our first date was spent watching the Pens play while we destroyed some sammiches. LOL.
Why did you decide to try eHarmony?
I did it after a dare from a friend! Really!
I had been using another online dating site to meet people for a while and just kept striking out. The guys who would contact me were not my type at all, and the guys I contacted were total duds. My friend Sara and I were talking about how bad the whole dating thing was going when she mentioned that eHarmony has detailed questionnaires that are used to recommend people who are a better match based on personality traits. We joked that any system that thought it could find a match for my personality was crazy. Sara dared me to try it and see what kind of "loser" eHarmony would think would match my personality, so I did.
Only Brian isn't a loser at all! He's the most amazing thing that has ever happened to me. eHarmony was right when it suggested that we meet!
When did you first know Brian was The One?
Oh, that's a good question. I think I knew within the first few minutes of our first date. We just clicked so perfectly! I didn't realize I knew he was the one for another month or so, though. I was telling a friend about Brian, and she asked if we were an official thing. I just kept thinking, "I hope we are!"
That weekend we had "The Talk" and agreed we were an official thing. A year later he proposed!
So, what's next?
WE'RE GETTING MARRIED! Crazy, isn't it? I'm pretty sure my parents thought I was going to be a single cat lady forever. LOL.
The wedding is in March, so we're really busy trying to put together the final details. I know it sounds sappy, but I can't wait to begin spending forever with my best friend.
I kind of want to make fun of Jennifer for her "sappy," but it's way too fantastic seeing her so happy. I'll just sit here and smile instead.
And now a chance for you to smile. BlogHer and eHarmony have given me a $100 Visa gift card to give away. All you have to do to be entered for a chance to win it is to leave a comment telling me what personality trait is a MUST in a partner and why.
Rules:
No duplicate comments.
You may receive (2) total entries by selecting from the following entry methods:
a) Leave a comment in response to the sweepstakes prompt on this post
b) Tweet about this promotion and leave the URL to that tweet in a comment on this post
c) Blog about this promotion and leave the URL to that post in a comment on this post
d) For those with no Twitter or blog, read the official rules to learn about an alternate form of entry.
This giveaway is open to US Residents age 18 or older.
Winners will be selected via random draw, and will be notified by e-mail.
You have 72 hours to get back to me, otherwise a new winner will be selected. The Official Rules are available here.
This sweepstakes runs from 2/14/2012 - 3/15/2012.
Visit the BlogHer.com eHarmony page to check out more blogger success stories and for more chances to win!
Tuesday, February 14, 2012
Reader Comments (216)
I Tweeted: https://twitter.com/#!/lisalmg/status/180363006272733184
lisalmg25 at gmail dot com
I need honesty. If I even have a doubt in trusting my partner, I'm out.
For me, it's a shared sense of humor to find the funny in life.
Thanks for the contest.
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Kindness
I would say "kindness". Someone who is kind may hurt someone's feelings, but they never enjoy it. They fight nicely, and behave decently during a breakup. They make the best partners, I think.
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For me it would be honesty.
cweller75@gmail.com
He has to be sincere.
My partner would have to be caring and comfortable in his own skin.
Thanks for the giveaway...intelligence & a sharp sense of humor are essential !
senorpiero [at] yahoo [dot] com
Sincerity, because I don't like when are false about themselves.
The personality trait that I find is most important is humor. If we didn't have laughter in our lives I doubt we'd be together.
michedt at yahoo . com
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My partner has to have a good sense of humor. I know I am entirely too serious so I need a mate that counteracts my seriousness.
longbarb1@aol.com
We've been married for 31 years now....and what is absolutely necessary is a
sense of humor......when something is upsetting....to see it from a different point of view with a smile can often be all you need.....a smile, a kind word or hug can make anything better